Did you do that? Borrow money to put your child through extracurricular activities or hockey? If yes, you are not alone! According to a survey conducted by Canadian Scholarship Trust Plan (CST) Three out of five Canadian parents (61 percent) say they, or someone they know, have borrowed money or used their retirement savings to put a child through hockey or other extracurricular activities!
And guess what? 51 percent of parents say they, or someone they know, is spending more money to put a child in an extracurricular activity over an education savings plan like an RESP.
So basically what parents do: spend up to $10,000 for their kids to play hockey and they don’t balance that with RESP: (Registered education saving plan). Does it make sense to you? I think it does not and it should not make sense! Here is why!
RESP & Extracurricular activities: how to balance all that!
RESP: Start from day 1
When my kids were born, my sister asked how she can contribute! I said RESP! She laughed at me and said: “they are babies! It’s too early!”
“It’s never too early to start saving,” I replied! We are also part of 89% (of parents, surveyed by CST) who believe it is important for parents in Canada to help their child pay for their post-secondary education!
For those who don’t know: RESP is a registered saving plan where Canadian government matches 20 per cent of the first $2,500 in annual contributions. It’s money offered by the government and a tax-deferred way! So for $2500 saving, the government provides $500. Isn’t it nice?
To finish my story, my sister opened an RESP account for my children! She put money in it and we started saving from day 1 (okay maybe month 2 or 3 as we were busy parents). Since the provincial government gave us child support, set up an automatic withdrawal to our children’s RESP accounts! Money in and money out = you don’t feel it on the budget!
Extracurricular activities: start at year 3?
When kids turned 3, we started the extracurricular activities! We feel that it’s important for kids to have fun and exercise! We started with swimming lessons. They are not expensive so it was manageable. But then my son wanted to play hockey! Ouch! The registration fees are expensive and the gear too! The money put in hockey was more than the money we were saving for post secondary education! It did not make sense! Besides the hockey costs were melting our saving accounts! We had to take action!
RESP And Extracurricular: our tips to balance?
Invest first in your child’s post-secondary education! They will thank you later!
You can start as early as one month old! They don’t need extracurricular activities at that age!
You can ask your parents to contribute!
Set automatic withdrawal payment! It will be part of the budget!
Use all the tax credits and tax returns
- We have a Fitness tax credit of 10% for $500 spent! It’s not a huge amount ($80) but still don’t forget about it
- Optimize your tax return and save some of it for your child’s extracurricular activities!
Pick and choose
Your child cannot sustain 3 extracurricular activities without becoming over-scheduled and overloaded. Your budget can’t sustain it either! Pick one activity and stick to it! My son played hockey for 3 years!. We bought used hockey gear and we did a lot of fundraising to reduce the costs! After 3 years, my son did not enjoy as much and I was tired of sitting in frozen arenas! I figured that he will never make it to the NHL. About 0.1 percent of the kids who play hockey will appear in just one game in the NHL! . We switched to skiing (which is expensive but at least we had a great family time).
Final tip! Forget about social pressure!
If you cannot afford to pay for extracurricular activities for one year, it’s not that a big deal! Children can play outdoors with the neighbors (there are outside hockey rinks and kids will have a blast). You can go biking as a family during spring and summer. I bought a used bike from a garage sale for $25! I have been using it for 5 years! Do what’s good for you and not what looks good to others. Just because 36% of people believe that paying for extracurricular activities like hockey is more important than saving for education doesn’t mean you have to follow that trend! My child wants to be an engineer and I want to help him with that! Paying $10,000 a year for hockey will not help him but contributing to RESP will do! Start today!
CST’s Beyond the Blue Line Contest and Twitter Party
Want a chance to win $10,000 to help make hockey less expensive? Check out CST’s Beyond the blue line contest! You could help your hockey team or organization win that $10,000! Visit beyondtheblueline.ca to learn more.
Join @CSTConsultants, @beyondtheblueline and @THNKenCampbell on December 17th at 9pm EST where they will be discussing the cost of hockey vs. Education and RESPs. Follow hashtag #hockeyvseducation -they’ll also be giving away 5 – $50 VISA gift cards!
Disclosure: I am part of the C.S.T. Consultants Inc. – Beyond the blue line blogger program with Mom Central Canada and I receive special perks as part of my affiliation with this group. The opinions on this blog are my own
17 thoughts on “Did You Borrow Money to Put Your Child Through Extracurricular Activities? #BeyondtheBlueLine”
I had no idea so many parents are borrowing money! We do not put we put a lot of money into their activities.
Oh yes, lots of parents do put a lot of money in activities in Canada, especially hockey
I’d love to put my boys in Hockey but I’ve heard that it is very expensive! Hence why we haven’t done so yet. All other extracurricular activities, in our case sports, are done through the Boys and Girls Club so there isn’t much of an expense there.
My son used to attend Boy Scouts and I love it! Hockey is very expensive!
Wow, I had no idea so many parents are borrowing money to put their kids into extra activities.
Me neither! I suspected it was happening but not on that level
I know people whose parents have spent every penny they could get their hands on, in hopes of rearing the next great athlete. It’s sad, really.
It is sad! It is important to send them to extracurricular but there are limits
Our kids aren’t at that age yet but my mother in law has offered to pay for 1 extracurricular per each child. It’s kinda nice and we definitely wouldn’t want to get into debt over hockey.
This is very generous of your mother in law. It will help a lot
I agree! It’s so much better to save instead of borrowing. Debt is like chains around your neck, so you want to limit it as much as possible. To borrow for a house is one thing – shelter is a necessity – but extra curricular activities are just that – extras!
so true: extra is extra!
I have never borrowed money to put my kids in extra circular activities. We actually technically I have, my kids are in band and the only way to get an instrument is on a payment plan. I did the rent to own program.
That’s a nice program! Instruments can be expensive
I must say I feel completely out of my element learning about RESP living in the States; however from what I grasp of their concept is well something I have wished for here. I hate how much we spend every year on sports. 6 kids. 5 of which are involved in at least 2 maybe 3 things every season. It is very overwhelming financially at times.
RESP is a very nice program: for each dollar you save for your child’s education, the government adds 20%! It encourages parents to save money for their child’s education